Anger and the many issues it causes
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Daniel Rodgers
People ask why this topic: The reason being is that this is usaully a topic not dealt with until it is too late.
Someone is seriously hurt, someone is in jail, and families are broken up.
How does this little 5 letter word cause such damage?
Well, I believe the main reason is that ANGER is left unattended. Sometimes ANGER is so mild that it isn't recognized as a problem.
Here is where you have your classic situation of MISDIRECTED ANGER (Anger left unattended or not dealt with the person or situation that caused it.
Based on my observations the most ANGER is caused in the work place.
An employee is upset about a situation with their boss.
For fear of reprisal they do not deal with the situation.
This starts the ball rolling into a build up.
They get in their car and someone cuts them off.
Not intentional, however, this builds'up more and starts festering, (By the way this causes your basic ROAD RAGE) now they go into the store the clerk isn't as pleasant as the person thinks they should be.
And boom they start yelling about the person being rude and uncourteous.
Maybe they were a little, however, not to the extent that warranted this outburst.
This now goes back to the first situation with the boss that was not dealt with.
Even worst thay do not deal with the situation with the clerk.
Now they have a build up of several incidences not properly dealt with or channeled.
Now for the worse scenario. they arrive home and the family is glad to see them.
However, someone does something not really bad , but could be a little annoying and they explode.
Now as far as they can see there isn't any real danger of letting their ANGER out.
Say it is a man and he gets into an agument with his wife.
They get a little too close(now remember they didn't deal with the boss-maybe scare of losing their job-didn't deal with the car that cut them off because they couldn't-didn't deal with the clerk because it didn't seem that important.)
However, built up anger now explodes again and they aren't scare of any consequences, shoving starts, wife falls down and hits her head. Hits that soft spot that everyone has and dies. Wife/Mother dead, Husband/Father in jail. Children witness the whole thing and have to live the rest of their lives seeing their father kill their mother.
A little extreme but possible. This is a classic case of Mis-Directed ANGER-check your prisons. There is a population of people who didn't mean to do it. This could have been the scenario.
Even worst is the person who try to drink their problem away and drive after drinking and hit someone. Maybe they black-out(Can't remember what happened) spend years in jail and will never even remember the incident.
What do you think about that 5 letter word now? A N G E R
By Daniel Rodgers
Published on 02/18/2009
Just living life on a daily basis you will come
in contact with a lot of angry men, women and
sad to say, children.
"Road Rage," "Senseless Killings," and "Crime,"
"Mother abuses child" "Man kills woman" just to
name a few , shows that there are a great number
of angry people in the world.
in contact with a lot of angry men, women and
sad to say, children.
"Road Rage," "Senseless Killings," and "Crime,"
"Mother abuses child" "Man kills woman" just to
name a few , shows that there are a great number
of angry people in the world.
Anger and the many issues it causes:
Having worked in the medical field for over 25
years I have seen my share of angry people.
Just living life on a daily basis you will come
in contact with a lot of angry men, women and
sad to say, children.
"Road Rage," "Senseless Killings," and "Crime,"
"Mother abuses child" "Man kills woman" just to
name a few , shows that there are a great number
of angry people in the world.
I have many years of experience working in the
Hospital Security Department and the last 15
years as a Radiologic Technologist . I have
come in contact with people from all walks of
life and have surmised that the majority of
people have not addressed their anger issues
nor do they know where the anger stem s from.
This is not a clinical paper on anger. If some
issues arise in you from the information you find
here please seek out medical attention to have
those issues addressed and possibly resolved.
You will find articles written by doctors and
other medical professionals. However, they are
just stating circumstances that may give you an
avenue to take so that if something does apply to
you , you will find the right medical source to
address your personal circumstances.
Some anger issues can be caused by just not
having enough money to do all the things one
might want to do ; and unable to make ends meet
when taking care of the family. Unhappy with th
e job or relationships. The lost of a loved one
whether through death, divorce or breakup.
There is no way to address all the issues that
there are in life, here at No More Anger For You,
the management just hopes to assist in people
recognizing the need to seek appropriate help.
By supplying a litany of articles from many
sources maybe something will stick out for you.
New articles will always be added so it is
suggested that you bookmark this site and come
back often. There will be a Dear Lynn piece for
those that have issues that may not require
medical attention, but want an ear to listen.
I do know that anger leads to internal problems
both physically (stress) and emotionally. It can
lead to a series of bad decisions in your life as
well as poor performance in all areas. The body
is a system and if anything is out of place the
whole system is in disarray. I am not a doctor
but I know that ANGER has to be the leading
cause of "Road Rage."
Imagine driving on the road and someone cuts
quickly in front of you without signaling, your
whole persona changes. The brain does not kick in
and say the world is big enough for both of us to
here, or change lanes where once again a clear
path is presented. No, it causes something to
click and instead of changing lanes , you pull
your car right to the back of the other car .
Now you have 6,000 pounds of steel metal and
other material and if on the highway going at a
speed of at least 55 miles per hour to pull
along side and create a hazardous situation or
even worse just to show them cut back in front of
them.
I can tell you from my experience as a
Radiologic Technologist (X-ray) that the speed
and the amount of metal interacting with each
other does not bring about good results. As a
matter of fact the most serious injuries from
motor vehicle accidents come from the speed at
which the car was going. The faster the car
moves the worst chance you have of a good
outcome.
This was was caused by anger. There are a litany
of other issues that will be addressed because of
anger; crime, child abuse, spousal abuse,
fighting, bullying, job los s and the ultimate
loss of life because of a bad or wrong decisionn
because a clear head did not prevail.
Please feel free to contribute your thoughts on
this subject . We welcome your comments. Go to
the ___Add Articles sections_______. Post your
statements, paragraphs, or articles. Someone else
may just need to hear that. Or they may have a
solution for you, if you are looking for one.
Having worked in the medical field for over 25
years I have seen my share of angry people.
Just living life on a daily basis you will come
in contact with a lot of angry men, women and
sad to say, children.
"Road Rage," "Senseless Killings," and "Crime,"
"Mother abuses child" "Man kills woman" just to
name a few , shows that there are a great number
of angry people in the world.
I have many years of experience working in the
Hospital Security Department and the last 15
years as a Radiologic Technologist . I have
come in contact with people from all walks of
life and have surmised that the majority of
people have not addressed their anger issues
nor do they know where the anger stem s from.
This is not a clinical paper on anger. If some
issues arise in you from the information you find
here please seek out medical attention to have
those issues addressed and possibly resolved.
You will find articles written by doctors and
other medical professionals. However, they are
just stating circumstances that may give you an
avenue to take so that if something does apply to
you , you will find the right medical source to
address your personal circumstances.
Some anger issues can be caused by just not
having enough money to do all the things one
might want to do ; and unable to make ends meet
when taking care of the family. Unhappy with th
e job or relationships. The lost of a loved one
whether through death, divorce or breakup.
There is no way to address all the issues that
there are in life, here at No More Anger For You,
the management just hopes to assist in people
recognizing the need to seek appropriate help.
By supplying a litany of articles from many
sources maybe something will stick out for you.
New articles will always be added so it is
suggested that you bookmark this site and come
back often. There will be a Dear Lynn piece for
those that have issues that may not require
medical attention, but want an ear to listen.
I do know that anger leads to internal problems
both physically (stress) and emotionally. It can
lead to a series of bad decisions in your life as
well as poor performance in all areas. The body
is a system and if anything is out of place the
whole system is in disarray. I am not a doctor
but I know that ANGER has to be the leading
cause of "Road Rage."
Imagine driving on the road and someone cuts
quickly in front of you without signaling, your
whole persona changes. The brain does not kick in
and say the world is big enough for both of us to
here, or change lanes where once again a clear
path is presented. No, it causes something to
click and instead of changing lanes , you pull
your car right to the back of the other car .
Now you have 6,000 pounds of steel metal and
other material and if on the highway going at a
speed of at least 55 miles per hour to pull
along side and create a hazardous situation or
even worse just to show them cut back in front of
them.
I can tell you from my experience as a
Radiologic Technologist (X-ray) that the speed
and the amount of metal interacting with each
other does not bring about good results. As a
matter of fact the most serious injuries from
motor vehicle accidents come from the speed at
which the car was going. The faster the car
moves the worst chance you have of a good
outcome.
This was was caused by anger. There are a litany
of other issues that will be addressed because of
anger; crime, child abuse, spousal abuse,
fighting, bullying, job los s and the ultimate
loss of life because of a bad or wrong decisionn
because a clear head did not prevail.
Please feel free to contribute your thoughts on
this subject . We welcome your comments. Go to
the ___Add Articles sections_______. Post your
statements, paragraphs, or articles. Someone else
may just need to hear that. Or they may have a
solution for you, if you are looking for one.